Just a quick rant.
For the record, I’m single because I choose to be - not because I’m “unfortunate” and HAVE to be. For one, I don’t see myself as financially stable to be in a relationship. A lot of people say that a man should take care of the woman and pay her way. I say FUCK THAT!!! I strongly despise being dependent. I’d rather have my own money and be able to take care of my damn self!!!
Another reason is, I honestly don’t feel the need to have a significant other to make me happy and/or feel good about myself. Hell, people irritate me just by speaking. I’d rather be alone and making myself happy than have someone in my way and aggravating me all the time.
Being in a relationship makes me miserable for several reasons, like:
• a jealous partner
• an untrustworthy partner
• a selfish partner
• lying/cheating/disrespect
• excessive attachment
• domination (little freedom)
• time spent worried about them rather than focusing on myself
• too much criticism/picking faults rather than noticing the good
• not meeting someone’s expectations
• bitching and complaining about insignificant shit
• compatibility issues
• pressure
• questions
• violation of privacy
• immature head games
• etc.
I mean, I refuse to put myself in such a situation where I am terribly discontent. But, that’s just me and my view on things… Although the list could go on for DAYS, I’m tired and done here.
